My Story
Back in October, I met Scott Manesis. Many of my first videos were inspired by him (whether he knew it or not). As the months wore on, we talked periodically, but last week, he partnered up with me in the Tribe Syndication Association.
We’ve had a couple of great talks in the last five days – and it’s been transformational for me. Isn’t that how it goes sometimes, you go to help someone learn something new, and you’re the one who learns the new stuff. 
He taught me some very important things about goals and the importance of sharing a story. Since that is my passion.. and goals have been a focus in the last few posts, I wanted to share some of it with you today.
1. Tell Your Story. Make sure people know where it is that you’ve come from. Chances are, the story is a lot like mine… it wasn’t all roses. I used to think the saying “Let your mess become your message” was just about persevering. It’s a lot more than that. What you have gone through can minister to someone else’s needs like no self-help program can. It’s your responsibility as a leader to do be inspiring and encouraging. Your Story does it best!
2. Each step you take toward your goal is a victory. I’ve got an incredible vision. My goals are massive. I’ve made the mistake of thinking, “I got a long way to go” and I put my head down and ignore those little victories – and I miss out on this third point:
3. Celebrate! You’ve GOT to celebrate your goals. Imagine if I would’ve hustled my way to the top, but regarded all those little victories moot. The journey wouldn’t be nearly so enjoyable. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve taken time to celebrate, but it’s been just letting my wife know what’s up, so she’ll understand why I have to work late again tonight. Please avoid this mistake. You NEED to enjoy the journey with whoever will listen.
In light of all this, today – for the first time, I’m going to share with you my story. I’m going to give you a message, and you’re going to understand it when you see the mess I was in and what I did to get out of it.
As always,
Carpe Fidem
Spirit of Faith, Man of Action
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Paul, As I read through the three steps, I kept wondering, “What is his story?” You shared from your heart in a way that was deep, transparent and true. It left me wanting to know more about your pathway to success. What DID you do to move forward? Faith in God, faith in yourself, a new company, or all of the above?
My story is still in the formative stages. I do have faith in the outcome, and I do focus on my goal card (snap, snap, snap). Success stories like yours fan the flames of success for me.
You are a constant source of inspiration!
I love your inspiring story on your video Paul. I thought of you early today when I looked at my goal card, the one I created after watching a video of yours two weeks ago. Already that goal card has profoundly transformed my thinking. I realized that I wasn't making money with my parenting business because I wasn't telling people what I can do for them on my website! I am a parenting coach as well as educator, and nowhere does it mention how to work with me!
I haven't rectified that situation yet, but I have been hard at work on the online parenting course that will be ready for sale later this week. Then I will get a tab on my site with a sales page for my coaching service. In the meantime I attracted a new client anyway, and I know it is no coincidence!
Thanks so much Paul! I'll be back to see what else you have to teach me.
you go Jacqueline!
Stories are powerful…human beings have been learning from them for centuries. They hulp us understand possibility as well as understand ourselves.
Paul,
Awesome share! It's so wonderful to understand where you're coming from. Each and everyone one of us travels our own journey. Yet this kind of passionate sharing brings home the message that we are all connected and through that connection we can learn and grow from each other. No one ever has to go it alone.
Now you can switch those stories into stories of empowerment and success. I'm not talking monetary success, I mean in your heart and soul discovering your dream success. You rock, my friend!
Val
Jacqueline, Building an online business is a continual learning experience. All these pieces have to be put into place – and then it will flow. I have some pieces not yet organized but I am also just getting more clients without effort as I work this all through.
Paul,
Not only was your story powerful, but you built such momentum. I was waiting and waiting to hear what this one missing piece is. Faith. You are right on. Faith and vision and taking steps in the direction of your dream. Just like Martin Luther King said, “I have a dream” and Mahatma Ghandi stood up to opposition without weapons and Nelson Mandela finished 7 years of prison to become a leader. Each of them had faith. Now you have given us two powerful videos – Goals and Faith. And if we have love and laughter, we have it all.
Hey Darlene – I'm glad you enjoyed the story. I wish there was a way I could share all I did, but you've got the right idea. Faith in many things, but applying it to everything was the trick. Blessings as you 'snap' to it.
Isn't this community amazing? yes, Jacqueline.. it is no coincidence. You already ARE the one you need to be.
It wouldn't do you any justice for me to leave a half A#$'d comment this late as I am tired, just know that I saw your post here and I am honored and proud of you bro. No I had no idea that my silly videos inspired you to do videos initially, that is kind of funny. Just shows to go ya, you never know how you will effect anothers life. I will come back and leave a more thoughtful comment when it is not 3:30 in the am and I can think clearly.
Thanks so much for that beautiful story. It makes me feel really good and I'm so glad persevered and prevailed.
You've inspired me to think about my story. Thanks!
Hi Paul,
I was moved beyond by your story. I already knew how amazing you are, but giving me such a personal glimpse into your triumph over adversity inspires and moves me beyond words. Thanks so much for sharing. The world needs to hear your story.
Alright, I was so moved, I left out a word. LOL I was moved beyond belief!
Paul,
You've done it again to the Nth degree! It takes guts to share the portions of our stories that we wish did not occur, but what you have shared has empowered us as well as many others, we're sure. You are right that our faith and belief ( I couldn't miss your “BELIEVE” on the wall) is what carries us through and turns our life around.
We're lucky that we found self-development and our faith and belief when we did. We are now on the path to financial success that our level of self-development can sustain.
Be proud, Paul, of your past and continue to make your future so much more!
Hey Paul,
The last comment was Dawn's doing, but she told me about your story so I wanted to stop by and listen for myself. What a wonderful video my friend! The power, the passion, the true sincerity in your words! You are AWESOME my friend and we have been blessed by getting to know you!
Please let us know if there's anything we can ever do to help.
Committed To Your Success!
Dave and (Dawn)
I thought for a second you were going to leave the missing piece out and tell us to wait til next time. So secretive you are. Faith! An interesting concept called the Corridor comes to mind. Once you take that leap of faith and enter the corridor, doors open! Most will never have the courage to do it. Just take one step in faith! It is not a religious concept, but a human one and much deeper than humanity, but one of the spirit.
Paul,
I love love love your message. We have a lot in common and would love to connect even deeper and share more of our stories! You totally nailed it… without Faith there is no hope.
let YOUR mess become your message… people will love you for it – and clamor to know more.
Thank you.. I never realized the importance of this until last week.. I'm so grateful that it's been a blessing to others.
Thanks so much, Dawn – I'm honored to be here.
The blessing has been mine, my friend. For all you do – and all you've done for me and my business online.
'not a religious concept, but a human one'
I love that.. in fact.. I think religion itself is the opposite of faith. The english word 'religion' is derived from the Latin words Religio (piety) and Ligare (to bind or tie)
Faith frees us while religion puts us in bondage.
The corridor has open doors. Religions only have the 'straight and narrow'.
Susan, I am so blessed to have met you within the last two weeks. I await with grateful anticipation for our meeting!
Hey Paul,
Great message my friend. So many people can relate to this including myself. I have come to understand how my lack of faith in myself and things great than me has held me back from living the life I was born to. You are a great inspiration and blessing in my life.
Make it a great day!
God Bless,
-ed
Paul, not only can I personally identify with your story, I couldn't agree more with you on how we need to actually practice faith. Your message is powerful and I believe will rsonate with the many who are truly working to succeed.
Bless you Paul,
-James
Paul, you are an inspiration to me. I have experienced similar challenges… I don't know if it was failue I felt in my life as much as disappointments, and things not working out. I can always remember just saying – okay, now move on. I can say moving on has not always brought me personally what I've wanted. And I think that goes back to “living numb” as a child so, I don't know. When you say faith .. how do you mean that? It means different things to different people….. thank you for sharing such deep experiences and feelings… love you for that.
Paul, you are a speaker. Can't wait for you to share your message on stage. Interested? I also went from there to here, by faith, friendships, and family. Where did you hear the saying “mess to message”? I believe we read and follow similar paths. Look forward to hearing more.
Sarah Hilton, cetified speaker and coach
Hi Paul,
Love it, love it, love it. Thank you so much for sharing this. Your story is indeed inspirational and deep. It makes others believe that it can be done and there isn't anything as powerful as hope. Thanks again.
hey Lesly. Faith in the truest sense.. no religious connotation behind it — although it is based on similar principles. Believing, without seeing.
Holding fast to a vision despite what circumstances may bring you.
Thank you, Sarah. I anticipate speaking in front of thousands next year. (this is my goal)
I first heard “Let your Mess become your Message” about a year ago on a conference call regarding success in home business.
Hi Paul, how did last night's interview and chat go on thatMLMbeat? The webinar was awesome also.
Isn't it amazing how by giving and being who you are, telling your story and getting to know people that doors open up to you and you attract like minded people into your life.
Great to be working with you again,
Thanks
Gavin
Paul,
I couldn't agree more with you…that our stories should be told ~ how powerful they can be for other people, who you don't know…someone else may really need to hear your story to help them, or someone they care about, through a tough situation (or one that perhaps they feel hopeless about at the time). And, like you and your family, if you're fortunate enough to get through a really tough time in your life, I personally feel it is your duty as a human being to share your story, your victory with others so they too can know it's possible to have a better tomorrow. My son and I went through what can only be described as a living hell for several years, and this all turned around for us about two years ago now, and from that experience, I know I'm blessed, yet also a stronger person who is passionate about my life and what I can do for others. Believe me, I was not like that at all before going through what I had to in order to get here. I appreciate you sharing your very personal, and emotionally moving, video with me and everyone else who visits your blog.
Christine
Paul,
Thank you so much for your vulnerability, your honesty, your inspiration! The words to your post are wonderful (especially the idea to CELEBRATE!), but your video is what is so touching, so heartfelt. Next week is the 18th anniversary of the death of my stepdaughter, Anique. She was my greatest teacher to date in opening my heart and being unconditionally loving. I continue to learn so much from her courage and example.
Peace,
Adam
Thanks Paul! I love your leadership, and I am loving this amazing journey!
Thanks, Gavin! And congrats on two counts: One for the baby, and two for the holiday!
Thanks Jacqueline! and yes… love this journey. Celebrate it!
Hey Paul…great to hear a bit more of your story. I very much appreciate hearing what you have overcome. Isn't it remarkable how much God has given us not only as Blessings but in the ability to overcome our seemingly hopeless circumstances?
We are all beyond blessed and hearing your story is just another one of those blessings for me.
I hear ya,
Talk to me.
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